Thursday, February 26, 2015

Stop The Positivity!

Okay, I want you STOP thinking so optimistically.

I know this is counter-intuitive for feminine leaders, especially women who are conscious and aware.

Is it time to stop hoping everything will work out and take action?    Do you ever feel that way?   Sometimes you've got to just take an assessment of what’s working and what’s not, and get on with making it better.

Remember, every good thing that has ever happened to you came because something changed.  It is the heart  of transformation.

Change is good, but the precursor to change is surrender.  And sometimes surrender feels like giving up the fight.  Maybe you are looking at a situation, knowing action has to happen and hesitating.

You know what you need to do.  What one tough decision have you put off making?  How much is it costing you to keep putting this off?  

We've all done it.   Procrastinated because it was, well, a tough call.  The more you fight against something, the stronger it becomes in your life.

Fighting is not always the way to success, sometimes letting go is.

It might feel like surrender.  When you read the word "surrender," you probably relate it to "defeat" but the two are entirely different.  Defeat means you've lost the battle; it denotes weakness.   Surrender means you've chosen not to fight and struggle anymore, and this decision comes from a place of POWER.  

The power comes from taking ownership of where you are today and knowing that you can create something better in the future - not by fighting and struggling but rather by looking for the next opportunity for you  to move forward.  

Successful entrepreneurs know that sometimes you have to cut the line and try something different. If you’ve got a chance to let go of what is less than perfect for you, and embrace what is really working, I hope you take it.  

You’ve only got two hands, and if both of  them are full with less than ideal situations you can’t reach out for what’s next.  To new, better, bigger opportunities and deeper  transformation!

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